The sociology of players: the various kind of MnF Users

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Thread posted on behalf of Boris327. All yours!

[hankypanky]

I've experienced a few main ones:

1. Immediately start an RP
2. Hey how are you *these are the worst*
3. Start with discussing/acting on your bio
4. Have a conversation about common interests
5. Exp help

[Boris327]

I have various categories in mind and I will add them in this thread during the next days.

The category that surprises me the most is the dreaded:

NO-WAY-TO-APPROACH-ME-EXCEPT-A-FEW-SECRET-SENTENCES-THAT-I-HAVE-IN-MIND-BUT-THAT-I-WILL-NEVER-REVEAL (The NWTAMEAFSSTIHIMBTIWNR).

In short: The NWNR

Every option you will try to approach them will end up with rejection and despise. They come into a game that is made to HELP communication and sex and if you try to communicate with them (without knowing them in advance and having so few clues about the way they work inside), you will be considered as ridiculous or worse, a pathetic monster, an egotistical bastard. Let's not talk about the fact that you could seem to want sex because they have a sexy appearance.

They have a secret agenda, a very complex diagram of approach that only them know. This diagram is quite conscious and clear in their mind. Do not count on them to help you for that, or to expect that they could be "comprehensive". The simple fact that you could expect (only a little) "comprehension" will make you fall in the category of "Pathetic".

Statistically, the chance you have to satisfy their expectations, to find the right words to start something (anything) with them is about 0,01%. Probably much more less.

Why do they come here? What do they do while they wait, unmoving, in some area, during hours?... Eliminating 99,99% of all those who DARE (those bastards) try to send them a message. A complete mystery... And after the first message (if it is accepted), there will be a second one where you can also fail dramatically, a third, a fourth...

You must understand that the first sentences you send them that could be accepted are about 3 or 4 amongst 1 million possibilities. It's like playing at the lottery or at the casino and receiving a letter -because you failed to find the right numbers at your first bet- telling you that you're a little piece of mud.

Psychoanalytic explanation of the NWNR: probably a confusion between what they think and what the world is, to think that their specific way to see the contact with other people is the only possibility, and to think that people should be telepaths.

The solution to approach them? Maybe some kind of tongue-in-the-cheek joke (less than 1% chance that your joke will work) and do not forget that you will be tested after that.. You will have to obey to a very narrow range of options and type of reactions. First, DO NOT SHOW THAT YOU COULD APPRECIATE SEX.... Even if the game is called: "Meet and Fuck".

The only exception is that the NWNR have some kind of bastard that they like (but that they will not reveal): one who asks sex from them but in a VERY narrow range. It could be a macho calling them "byatch", one who asks bondage with pink silk ropes in RP, a girl with pointed ears who hates the world, one who has sex "only for XP", without any kind of sentimental involvement, etc... Good luck if you expect to fit in this very selective range of choice.

AND: a question that they will NEVER answer you: "How would you like to be approached?"... (if 99,99% of the way to approach them is rejected).

"Stop to whine!"
"I do what I want"
"You have to be at the level"

...will be their answer. It's their right...

But, you wonder: "Why do they come here?". The answer is: "To say No!"

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(12-31-2018, 04:09 AM)hankypanky Wrote: I've experienced a few main ones:

1. Immediately start an RP
2. Hey how are you *these are the worst*
3. Start with discussing/acting on your bio
4. Have a conversation about common interests
5. Exp help

Mmm.. I have nothing against you. But when I read what you wrote... you seem not to appreciate those 5 categories. But...what options would people have to approach you? Your 5 options have eliminated 99% (and more) of the possibilities to speak to someone that you don't know at first, in this game.

You don't like the common rules of politeness that are used in real life. You write a bio, but you don't like if people react to it. You don't like if people are direct. You don't like if they're indirect. You don't like direct RP or XP. What, for example, would be the kind of approach you would like? I'm like a scientist, wondering what would be the kind of sentences that could be accepted by you at first contact.

[JohnSins]

A lot of biases and judgments come from first impressions: how you look, how you carry yourself in public, and really anything that calls to attention before you even begin communicating with a person. Not saying the NWNR doesn’t exist, but it’s moreso that a negative assumption was made before contact was made, thus anything you say still wouldn’t satisfy them. I mean the game is called “Meet and Fuck,” people know what they are getting into when creating an account. The most successful way to approach someone is by saying something funny/clever about their bio or what they are wearing...also being premium, makes a huge difference too...lol...

[Vrook]

Wan sum fuk?



P.S. Happy New Year!

[Sergio]

There are a lot
But i like the one's that includes the *fun* word in them

[Purest_Elf]

The level 1 “wanna RP?” mystery guy

With very little information on his bio, and no indication if he can even type a complete sentence, this man is sure of only one thing, he wants to role play! When asked what scenes he is seeking, his answer will always be “whatever you want”. All attempts to workshop an idea with him will result in the same answer. Should a charitable maiden consider giving him a chance, she will quickly learn that the poor man will need his hand holding through every part of the scene, often giving the impression she is simply role-playing with herself with a milquetoast simper of an echo coming from her hopeless partner.

Sadly for our guy, his complacent nature and desire to please, ironically leave him pleasing no one.

[Boris327]

Let's go on with my second category: the Stray Cats

The Stray Cats are errands and like adventures and experience (not especially the XP, meaning the Experience Points, but "experience" in the sense of experimenting new things).
Even if they have a house and/or an appart, they are often outside. Risk and new things, new kind of people excite them. They will have a very varied personal history in the game. Depending of their mood and their Real Life situation, they come and go in the the game without predictable regularity. They will have their RP period, then a pure sex period, sometime a pure chat period, etc.. etc.. and so.. and so... Sometimes they will mix all that.
Even when they become rich and/or powerful, they will be sometimes found "slumming" (meaning mixing up with the poor or the low level, for example in Wild West).
So, the Stray Cats are the free spirits of the game, frequently with a smart tongue (in our case at least a correct level of writing). Instead of blocking or "ignoring" the dumb-ass or the "heavy" players -depending of their own taste-, they prefer to dodge them with second-degree humor or other ways. Like the Cats, they love to play with their prey before "killing" it.

The flaw of the Stray Cats: their sentimental side. They're not easy to be approached or to be understood, but when they finally get attached to someone, they're a bit too confident. Their heart will be probably broken a few times during their time in the game, confronted to more cold or more severe players, that they had thought to be like themselves.

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(12-31-2018, 03:42 PM)Boris327 Wrote: I have various categories in mind and I will add them in this thread during the next days.

The category that surprises me the most is the dreaded:

NO-WAY-TO-APPROACH-ME-EXCEPT-A-FEW-SECRET-SENTENCES-THAT-I-HAVE-IN-MIND-BUT-THAT-I-WILL-NEVER-REVEAL (The NWTAMEAFSSTIHIMBTIWNR).

In short: The NWNR

Every option you will try to approach them will end up with rejection and despise. They come into a game that is made to HELP communication and sex and if you try to communicate with them (without knowing them in advance and having so few clues about the way they work inside), you will be considered as ridiculous or worse, a pathetic monster, an egotistical bastard. Let's not talk about the fact that you could seem to want sex because they have a sexy appearance.

They have a secret agenda, a very complex diagram of approach that only them know. This diagram is quite conscious and clear in their mind. Do not count on them to help you for that, or to expect that they could be "comprehensive". The simple fact that you could expect (only a little) "comprehension" will make you fall in the category of "Pathetic".

Statistically, the chance you have to satisfy their expectations, to find the right words to start something (anything) with them is about 0,01%. Probably much more less.

Why do they come here? What do they do while they wait, unmoving, in some area, during hours?... Eliminating 99,99% of all those who DARE (those bastards) try to send them a message. A complete mystery... And after the first message (if it is accepted), there will be a second one where you can also fail dramatically, a third, a fourth...

You must understand that the first sentences you send them that could be accepted are about 3 or 4 amongst 1 million possibilities. It's like playing at the lottery or at the casino and receiving a letter -because you failed to find the right numbers at your first bet- telling you that you're a little piece of mud.

Psychoanalytic explanation of the NWNR: probably a confusion between what they think and what the world is, to think that their specific way to see the contact with other people is the only possibility, and to think that people should be telepaths.

The solution to approach them? Maybe some kind of tongue-in-the-cheek joke (less than 1% chance that your joke will work) and do not forget that you will be tested after that.. You will have to obey to a very narrow range of options and type of reactions. First, DO NOT SHOW THAT YOU COULD APPRECIATE SEX.... Even if the game is called: "Meet and Fuck".

The only exception is that the NWNR have some kind of bastard that they like (but that they will not reveal): one who asks sex from them but in a VERY narrow range. It could be a macho calling them "byatch", one who asks bondage with pink silk ropes in RP, a girl with pointed ears who hates the world, one who has sex "only for XP", without any kind of sentimental involvement, etc... Good luck if you expect to fit in this very selective range of choice.

AND: a question that they will NEVER answer you: "How would you like to be approached?"... (if 99,99% of the way to approach them is rejected).

"Stop to whine!"
"I do what I want"
"You have to be at the level"

...will be their answer. It's their right...

But, you wonder: "Why do they come here?". The answer is: "To say No!"

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(12-31-2018, 04:09 AM)hankypanky Wrote: I've experienced a few main ones:

1. Immediately start an RP
2. Hey how are you *these are the worst*
3. Start with discussing/acting on your bio
4. Have a conversation about common interests
5. Exp help

Mmm.. I have nothing against you. But when I read what you wrote... you seem not to appreciate those 5 categories. But...what options would people have to approach you? Your 5 options have eliminated 99% (and more) of the possibilities to speak to someone that you don't know at first, in this game.

You don't like the common rules of politeness that are used in real life. You write a bio, but you don't like if people react to it. You don't like if people are direct. You don't like if they're indirect. You don't like direct RP or XP. What, for example, would be the kind of approach you would like? I'm like a scientist, wondering what would be the kind of sentences that could be accepted by you at first contact.

Do not worry, no agressivity in my remark, just wondering and curiosity.

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Do not worry, hankypanky, no agressivity in my remark, just wondering, and curiosity.

[Purest_Elf]

The “rejection immune” futanari


Once there was a humble man, lost in a sea of rejection. Try as he may, he couldn’t impress anyone into giving him a chance! To his favour, he had the desire to improve himself…but learning to roleplay and approach women sound to much like hard work! Instead, he thinks to himself, “surely, the source of my rejection has nothing to do with my personality, creativity and interpersonal skills, it must be because I am a man!” Some would don the mantle of lesbian or BBC first, but this gentle soul has chosen the path of the she-daddy! The futanari!

Yet…his problem still remains! How can he still be turned down now that he is everything he likes about a woman, and the only thing he believes is worthwhile from a man?



A moment of growth? Or another step further down the path of self loathing...




The lesson to learn? The cock doesn't make the man, and in many cases is the least important part!

[Boris327]

I've got to admit that I had never dare approach the subject of the futanari, but Purest_Elf has enlightened me about the subject.

So, a third category, after the NWNR and the Stray Cats:

The "Rejection Immune" Futanari  (copyright Purest_Elf). We could call him:

The RIF