The big thread on butts

[SissyNektar]

EDIT: Omg I'm sorry if this post comes off as an advice column! That wasn't my intent /EDIT


Aw Don't give up searching, doc. There are many butt curious people out there. The trick is just to make them open up about it.

As for playfully adding a finger during doggy, unless you really know the person's preferences, yeah, you're going to get slapped! Given how taboo our little kink is (copious amounts of porn not withstanding), you need to establish some form of trust in your partner, which can be especially hard during a one night stand. Instead of going straight for the goal, I'd suggest maybe trying  the following:

- Talk to your partner. It may sound obvious, but if you're open and honest about what you want, chances of you getting it will increase. If your partner isn't into it, then there's really not much to do, and you'll probably feel a bit awkward afterward, but if she's curious and into a bit of play but too shy to ask, taking the initiative will likely put your partner more at ease.

- Show how much you're into it. Rather than poking her, ask her to poke you. During oral, for instance, ask her to rub you back there, and then ask her to step it up with a finger inside you. Seeing how much you enjoy it, it could stir some curiosity in her as well. Now you're both in this together, rather than it just being her in her fortress, feeling a battering ram against her gate

Ultimately, neither of these will garauntee you any play, of course. If your partner isn't into it, then she just isn't. But by establishing honesty and trust, you're more likely to get to experiment