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[Emmie]

I get what you're saying, nor am I taking it personally. But I tell a lot of guys irl I'm not interested as well, I've added the good luck wish on here though, when I'm out and about in pubs and clubs. If I'm not interested, I'm not interested. And I assume this might be some misunderstanding between cultures. But in Sweden, when someone says they are not interested. That means they're not interested in anything at all. Not talking, not fucking, not anything. It's pretty much a nice way of saying, please go away.
And I don't mean to be rude with that, that's just me telling a person "Hi, I've read your message, I'm just not interested in you. I'm sure you'll find someone though." In no way do I think I deserve to be told I'm a prude bitch or sick for that. (And I know that's not what you're saying)
I've never had a guy tell me off when I reject them irl. Most just take it like they should. I've been rejected as well, and I don't harbour bad feelings over that. I liked him, but he liked someone else. That's life.
And in that case, we had known eachother for over a year. These people literally meet me, and decide over the course of a few minutes that I'm a horrible cunt. That makes zero sense to me. I don't expect people to take rejection with a smile, I expect them to take it with dignity.

And I think telling someone you're not interested is a lot nicer than just scoffing at them. Now, you're saying ignoring is rude, but you're also saying that my reply is bad, what would you suggest I do. Cause let me just say, in the end, my goal is to tell the guy I don't wanna chat or sex with him. There is no nice way about it, you can just keep the hurt as low as possible.