01-21-2017, 06:01 PM
(This post was last modified: 01-21-2017, 06:04 PM by EroticUdyr.)
I think a lot of people are really hopeful when trying to get in touch with new people they're interested in. And if rejected, they take it personally.
So for those who take rejections personally: A person who instantly rejects you does not know you. It's then also a big chance the person is just not looking for any new contacts, for all you know it can be any reason, really.
And why not just respect that?
It's not like you're interested in making friends with everyone either (most likely not, at least). You gotta ask yourself how you'd react if someone of the "wrong" sex came to you asking for something you weren't interested in.
Putting someone on ignore instantly is not being disrespectful either. It's cold, yeah, but not mean or prudish, imo. The person just ended it, and you gotta understand that a forced convo, with someone who wants to ignore you, leads nowhere. Not even to a new face in your friendlist.
Move on, that's way easier than begging and nagging for something that's not gonna happen. ^^
So for those who take rejections personally: A person who instantly rejects you does not know you. It's then also a big chance the person is just not looking for any new contacts, for all you know it can be any reason, really.
And why not just respect that?
It's not like you're interested in making friends with everyone either (most likely not, at least). You gotta ask yourself how you'd react if someone of the "wrong" sex came to you asking for something you weren't interested in.
Putting someone on ignore instantly is not being disrespectful either. It's cold, yeah, but not mean or prudish, imo. The person just ended it, and you gotta understand that a forced convo, with someone who wants to ignore you, leads nowhere. Not even to a new face in your friendlist.
Move on, that's way easier than begging and nagging for something that's not gonna happen. ^^