01-21-2017, 03:51 PM
(This post was last modified: 01-21-2017, 03:57 PM by Wakabayashi.)
(01-21-2017, 03:25 PM)Emmie Wrote: First of all, I'd like to know what the "bitch complex" is... And second, people need to stop bitching about being put on ignore. That's not discrimination or anything. It's a feature to make sure people you don't wanna associate with can't contact you. Nothing more, nothing less. If they don't wanna give you a chance, that is their right, why should they have to listen or talk to you, even though they don't want to?
All I see is an egotistical point of view where people feel like they deserve something they don't. You can't control people, you can only control yourself. We all handle things differently, but it's a fact that if you don't have time to waste on random strangers, the fastest way is just to put them on ignore. That's not rude, do you know how many times when I say "Sorry, I'm not interested", I am requested to write out 5 A4 papers on why I'm not interested, why I won't give them a chance, why I'm even in the game if I don't wanna fuck them etc etc etc etc. It goes on forever. Stop acting like people owe you and be glad when you meet a person who is interested instead... When a person puts you on ignore, they save both of you a lot of time anyways, so just think of it as a favor...
I'm not trying to take the piss, nor am I trying to put anyone down. All I'm doing is pointing out that this is an MMO, and people are playing this to enjoy themselves, not to cater to everyone elses feelings. As long as they don't stalk and harass you, just be happy. -_-
Sure thing! You just need to get to the first post of mine. For the second I can say that the straight answer to that can be put while people stop bitching about that.
Wait... nobody said that -ignore- it is a discrimination at that point. I agree to the rest, it is a privilege.
At this point, please don't refer to this into me, because it's not about me here. Of course, they don't need to speak up but this doesn't tell them why the shouldn't to talk or listen, so it's fair enough again at this point.
I mentioned that before that first of all I would check on that before getting into deeper conversation point.
Yes, exactly! I've got the same feeling about that. They shouldn't do that, that's for sure. There is already to much of manipulation over the others and they still want more; I don't like that either. The rest seem kind of funny because it seem like you're trying to refer that to me? -Is that correct? While it's not about that and I'm totally not about that either so, please read once again before posting; you missing the point and It was pretty much mentioned by me, please don't act like one of those persons who try to control here someone.
Thank for mentioning that after doing it in the whole post. Please do not ever point it out at me because it looks totally opposite in my words and yours as well especially for those who put a little effort to follow the whole conversation going on here. Still trying then to "enjoy".
Nightshade
Yeah that whole "bitch complex" thing was out of line. Here a good link on it: https://www.buzzfeed.com/lizardb1/the-bi...bq6Qaj061k
No, no, no... that's totally not that; in this way.
Emmie
Thank you Nightshade, I've never heard the term before and wasn't sure what it meant. ^^ And again, bottom line is, and I really wish everyone would take an ignore this way. Whoever put you on ignore has saved you time you might've wasted on them. Be happy they did, and respect that they are not interested in you.
Umm... there is no need to say thank you because that's not the meaning and it looks like you're still not sure. Yes! I wish that too here! Anyways still a bit rude after all to not let yourself glorify properly at this point. Oh... respect.. how many times I've mention that; sad that they don't and they would rather start flaming... I'm not interested about them either so such a situation does not happen.