So talking in the public chat might not always work with some girls. In a busy area I will pretty well be on PM continuously. I try to keep an eye on the chat but often I forget. More than a few times I've had a friend PM me asking why I am ignoring them then I look and they have been standing there talking to me for awhile.
Also the chats sometimes go off on tangents that don't interest me so I will tune them out. I think a pleasant PM showing some of your personality is the best approach.
Quoting what Shey said,
"Imagine your PM against 10 others at the same time. What makes yours stand out? Are you funny? Great, roll with that (I love funny guys). Are you a sweetie? Awesome, cook up some sweet one liners. Just go with your strong points and you'll find some nice girls quickly"
And I will add, Dont be a cold inviter!!!
Also the chats sometimes go off on tangents that don't interest me so I will tune them out. I think a pleasant PM showing some of your personality is the best approach.
Quoting what Shey said,
"Imagine your PM against 10 others at the same time. What makes yours stand out? Are you funny? Great, roll with that (I love funny guys). Are you a sweetie? Awesome, cook up some sweet one liners. Just go with your strong points and you'll find some nice girls quickly"
And I will add, Dont be a cold inviter!!!
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