I've been judged a lot too, and yeah it sucks. But I've also had somebody force themselves upon me, and guess which was worse? So when I say people who have these fantasies for real need help, I'm not judging, I'm saying it because they do, so that they can avoid hurting others or getting hurt themselves. If you want to say that my views are wrong, or Sharp's, or anybody else who says this, fine. But none of us are saying there is anything wrong with people playing out their domination scenarios on private. We just think that people who have that fantasy for real have something not quite right in their head.
Do I think that rape RP makes the actual act of it seem not as bad as it really is? Yes I do.
And do I think that those who engage in it, or fantasize about it, of make it out to be in any way positive, are to some extent mocking those who have experienced that hell for real? Yes I do.
But I still understand that people have these fantasies and fetishes. I may never understand truly why, but I don't need to. I know how it feels to be in that situation, and I know that anybody who wishes to be in the same position, or to put somebody in that position, has to have something wrong with them.
Do I think that rape RP makes the actual act of it seem not as bad as it really is? Yes I do.
And do I think that those who engage in it, or fantasize about it, of make it out to be in any way positive, are to some extent mocking those who have experienced that hell for real? Yes I do.
But I still understand that people have these fantasies and fetishes. I may never understand truly why, but I don't need to. I know how it feels to be in that situation, and I know that anybody who wishes to be in the same position, or to put somebody in that position, has to have something wrong with them.