08-10-2016, 01:10 AM
(08-09-2016, 03:53 PM)OnlyRpGuy Wrote: She said she was a slave, and wasn't allowed to talk to men or her mistress could beat her. So I decided to convince the mistress to let her free. After some talk, I finally manage to free the girl and she says she fell in love with me and want to stay with me forever.
You convinced a submissive's dominant to just let her go? I hope people understand what D/s relationships are meant to be - certainly not something you WANT to be freed from! If this is true, then you saved her (and her Mistress) from a pretty shitty relationship.
(08-09-2016, 03:53 PM)OnlyRpGuy Wrote: First she said she had cancer and that she had to cure it, I felt very bad for her but still that didn't change my mind for her. Then she told me that she got raped,
I can agree with you here. It definitely seems unbelievable but not TOO much. The probability of being raped is about 1 in 5 in the US, and I believe roughly 50% (tipped towards women) of adults end up with a cancer diagnosis nowadays.
(08-09-2016, 03:53 PM)OnlyRpGuy Wrote: But this doesn't stop here. At some point, she told me she got raped by her father when she was young too
This is where it seems to get a little too convenient. I don't want to call her a liar, but this seems to make things too easy for her to draw pity in (and especially if she wanted to blur the lines between MnF and IRL). Of course, it's still possible - perhaps she lived in a particularly seedy city? A friend of mine grew up abused and raped by her own father, and because of the crime-ridden nature of her home town, was also raped in public-ish places (bars and the like).
(08-09-2016, 03:53 PM)OnlyRpGuy Wrote: I thought about the fact she was just having fun talking shit about serious stuff, and trying to make me feel bad and desperatly trying to help her.
It could have been either or. A desperate plea for help, or just someone who was enjoying getting pitied for something that didn't actually happen to her. Both are equally sad.
(08-09-2016, 03:53 PM)OnlyRpGuy Wrote: After 2 weeks of intensive chat with each other, I asked her some IRL infos, so maybe I could send her letters or as she said she was going to go to hospital soon, I wanted to send her flowers if that was possible, by knowing her adress. Well guess what, she didn't give me any info, she said she had no facebook, no phone, nothing I could rely on to keep contact beside the game.
This right here is the biggest red-flag out there. I can understand that, in most cases, most people just aren't comfortable revealing personal info on this place, and that's fine. But in this specific case, where it seemed that the both of you were exceedingly close, and especially right after starting such a pity-party for herself... it's iffy, at best. This is the point where nobody can blame you for believing she was playing you for a fool.
(08-09-2016, 03:53 PM)OnlyRpGuy Wrote: I'll probably never know if her story was true, was it someone trying to have fun with my mind, or someone who was seeking some protection, forgetting about her IRL life and to feel secure and loved in an adult game? I have a lot of arguments that makes me me believe she was tricking me, and a lot to make me believe she was real.
Your best bet at this point is to just... move on. It's nice to see that you consider both sides, though.
(08-09-2016, 03:53 PM)OnlyRpGuy Wrote: Sorry for the long text. So what do you think? Real? Fake?
I'd go with fake. There are just too many things to ignore.