07-02-2016, 03:14 PM
*gives you a very tight hug* My emotions are a jumble when reading this, so before I go about clumsily expressing them. I so sorry you had this experience and someone betray you like that, it can be one of those defining hurts.
There is something unique in being a woman when it comes to sex and feelings that, I think men don't always get, because, they ultimately aren't built that way. I mean, we all have emotional vulnerability, but when we have physical congress, the very act of sex invites someone inside of us. It intensifies those emotions. Being able to experience negative feelings of something and wanting to get over it, but coupling with the sensation or idea that part of that person was inside of us lends it....a really heavy weight. I'm very sorry again that you had to experience a cut so personal and then for it not to have been understood and addressed. I'm sorry someone took something you gave in love and passion and turned it into something dark. I wish I could give you more than thoughts, internet hugs and maybe clumsy understanding.
There is something unique in being a woman when it comes to sex and feelings that, I think men don't always get, because, they ultimately aren't built that way. I mean, we all have emotional vulnerability, but when we have physical congress, the very act of sex invites someone inside of us. It intensifies those emotions. Being able to experience negative feelings of something and wanting to get over it, but coupling with the sensation or idea that part of that person was inside of us lends it....a really heavy weight. I'm very sorry again that you had to experience a cut so personal and then for it not to have been understood and addressed. I'm sorry someone took something you gave in love and passion and turned it into something dark. I wish I could give you more than thoughts, internet hugs and maybe clumsy understanding.