12-21-2015, 11:38 PM
(12-21-2015, 11:16 PM)Bango Wrote:(12-21-2015, 08:31 PM)Silvyraven Wrote: As someone with both real life and rp experience with BDSM I find that this games limitations makes playing out a BDSM scene difficult. One of the bigger problems is that a good scene takes time. If you want to really have your partner understand you have to be quite descriptive. The rooms only allow for 3 hours max I think, so it is best to warm up in PMs if you can.
The other problem is post limit. You have a maximum amount of characters per post, so you have to choose your words carefully. This makes it harder when trying to map out the scene. You have to describe more than the visual, use descriptive terms to enhance sensation. Make it not just sight, but smell, touch, sound.
This is hard to convey as the only pose with even remote ties to this is the spanking in doggy style. Most of the time a scene may not even involve sex at all. There might be no penetration or even contact with genitals. It really depends on what you are aiming for.
I really think the addition of a BDSM club, with poses that can only be used in that club, should be implemented. This way people not really into it wont feel like they have to get new poses they may never use.
TBH, if I want a BDSM scene, I don't come here.
I agree the lack of a scroll bar for the chat makes it more difficult, especially describing a scenario.
I usually describe not only the scene, but even if there's silence, sound of footsteps, or just when and which tool I'm going to use on her (bit gags, blindfold, chains-clamps, armbinders, suffocation, etc..). Otherwise I tend to post pics taken from internet if I'm limited by the chat, just to focus the other person on the scene.
I'd add that's important first to know if your partner is into it, because it'd be a waste of time to start and then discovering he/she's not convinced, not able to handle it, or to follow the rp. Whatever is the role both must enjoy the roleplay or there's no sense in doing it. So warming them up with pms is a good test.
As you wrote it takes time, before and during it so people who want quickies should stay away from it, or just my opinion.
And yes maybe this is not the best place for BDSM scenes, furthermore probably they won't add them or specific outfit in the future, because after all there's a small part of the community asking for it.
you are very right in all your arguments, this game is very limited in some aspects, but its only 2 months old! I think that adding BDSM poses and having a bar which you can both choose the positions 1 at a time before starting the sex would be a benfit. it would allow those with certain requirements to choose what they required in order to gain the maximum RP or visual stimuluos, but i think this is a future toy and wont be rolled out for a while!!
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