(05-13-2016, 09:33 PM)Fenix-TS Wrote:(05-13-2016, 08:46 PM)Cuylie Wrote: Thank for your reply! Yes, I can see how the situation can become chaotic pretty swiftly. Aside from the nuclear option of just ending the "scene" how do you keep control? (I'm not worried about asserting myself, I teach high school and frequently have to manage 20 plus teenagers.)
LOL, ok, so you have experience in handle with testosterone, that's good and very helpful
I never teach but I think that's not very different, take control of the 'class room', distribute 'tasks' and if someone misbehave 'put him outside', do you like the analogy?
In a more serious tone, set the rules before you start, if you choose to be in control, control it...set the pace of the action, say who does what, make sure that only YOU can change the poses, and in case, you lost it and the chaos is settled, don't be afraid of STOP IT and start over... and most important, HAVE FUN
You have no idea the amount of testosterone that can be flowing in there, I teach 11th grade, lots of 17 year olds.
That is a good analogy and it makes sense. It feels like you could be doing a ton of directing. I probably should throw caution to the wind. This is one of my really kind of secret fantasies and, hmmm, I want to make sure it goes ok. I might have to observe one if it comes up and I can. I'm probably over thinking it.
(05-13-2016, 09:47 PM)Sharp Wrote: I've not witnessed a gangbang on here myself, but I know that Lexi sets her rules before hand and then has somebody she trusts take control. While Lexi is still ultimately in charge, this second person organises everybody else, ensuring Lexi gets what she wants.
(05-13-2016, 10:08 PM)Fenix-TS Wrote: sure Sharp, but I was talking in general, if you don't have no one you trust and/or you don't know no one, in that case, you have to take care of business yourself, I did it several times, and in more than one occasion I knew none of my partners, that wont stop me to had and give fun, bottom line is, cuylie, go for it, give it a try if you are curious about it, if goes well or goes bad at least you gain a new experience and honestly, what you have to loose?
(05-13-2016, 10:36 PM)RP_RICK Wrote: If me or Kyrios are present, we can help setting things up and guidance. Having a trustworthy "team" does go a long way
(05-13-2016, 11:18 PM)Sate Wrote: Lay out some ground rules before the start. Also, talk to some folks in advance. You'll want at least 1 or 2 people that know you can help guide you. I've helped 2 friends in this and it's been a good RP each time. I owe another friend due to network issues (though technically I was volunteered). Overall you do drive it as it is for your pleasure.
Thank you all for your words. I also want to thank those who want to help guide the way.....I know for me it is easier to "let go" when I feel like someone else is around in control. (I had to edit this one as I didn't realize I was limited to 5 posts in a day
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