How do you reject people in the game?

[RPesse]

Thanks to you people now I'm 100% sure that my thoughts weren't that wrong I'm not crazy, yay!

Bor, your point of view is interesting I never thought about this "social patterns"! I tried twice to create a male avatar... 
When I first discovered this game I thought - wrong - that I could create more characters so I invented this guy and it didn't go that bad, girls texted me, but 24h later I created the first "Roberta" and I was overwhelmed by requests. Then a couple of weeks passed and I returned to the game, creating my male avatar again and I couldn't find him any girlfriend so I switched back - permanently - to my personification in the game. Something that I don't understand happened in the middle and now we're in this situation, why was it all so nice in the beginning for you males? Have we girls done something wrong?