04-24-2016, 12:42 PM
(04-24-2016, 11:58 AM)EroticUdyr Wrote:(04-24-2016, 10:23 AM)Sharp Wrote: If they are unable to accept it, then they are not right for him.
Or you could see it this way, if he's not able to make a decision: He's not right for either of them.
Seeing this dilemma from only one person's perspective is far too narrow minded.
Obviously his view is to be considered as well, but seeing that his actions affects two people, I think judging him is more fair than judging the two for not accepting his indecisiveness.
While it's true there's a chance that neither of them is right for him, I highly doubt it's because "they are unable to accept it".
Just a little heads up to let you know there are more sides than just one, in every case.
Whoa, I never said it's up to them to accept him, but given that the poem is about his thoughts and feelings, his view is the only one we have to go on. But it is up to him to be open with the. I'm not judging anybody, at no point have I suggested that I am. I have no idea where you've got that idea from. And how is judging him fair? It isn't.
And how much experience do you have of been in this situation, on either side? I myself have been in the position of one of the girls, where somebody I love tells me they love both me and another. Sure, I wasn't happy about that, but I was able to accept it, because that is who they are, and I loved them no matter what. So trying to call me out as narrow minded, or being unable to see both sides is both wrong and unnecessary.