04-19-2016, 01:23 AM
(04-19-2016, 12:22 AM)IvanXLIV Wrote: Hello people,
When I joined the MnF Club back in mid-january, I did so - like many of us - with the prospect of having lots of virtual sex in a pleasant, beautifully imagined and rendered online environment. I stumbled often at first, as I figured out how to navigate the place, and earned more than my share of rebuttals as I learned the hard way that cold invites are a no-no and possibly the worst way to attract prospective lovers.
Then I had my first experiences, soon channeling all the lust and energy thus obtained in creative directions and putting the results on the forum, while discovering kindred spirits whom I befriended and began to hang out with whenever I went online.
It has already been mentioned, analysed and debated elsewhere how one's experience evolve over time, and how sex (especially with the animations) either loses its appeal or becomes secondary to the friendships achieved within the game (and the forum of course). The gaming experience is bound to evolve and take new, sometimes unexpected directions...
... and one I never expected was love. Sure, even the most jaded among us harbor some feelings toward their lovers (mainly lust and desire) and a significant number develop strong friendships that often spill out in real life. But... to actually fall in love?
Take a moment, think back of the day you signed on.. how many of you did so expecting to find a soulmate here? Certainly not I... and yet I did. She is the highlight of my days, the missing piece of my heart, the better part of me... spending time online with her is pure bliss, precious moments of suspended eternity away from the tedium of everyday life... well, you get my drift.
I'm starting this thread because I'm wondering how many among us have found love online, what it brought to their lives, and I also wanted to know (using the poll function) what people think about falling in love within the club... is it a wondrous opportunity not to be dismissed? Is it a recipe for a doomed relationship and broken hearts? You tell me....
Ivan
A wonderful idea for a thread Dear Ivan. Love is love, afterall. Does it matter how or where a relationship begins? I think not. We may be witnessing the evolution of how that may unfold. Imagine if you will, and as a species we survive, the eventual colonization of other planets. The genesis of relationships in this way may become the norm. And, broken hearts can happen anywhere. We know that going in and yet we continue to do so. Why? Because without that risk, the alternative becomes so much more unpalatable. I am proud to consider you my friend. And we first met here.
~Anallee