Limits of acceptability

[busyman1]

Ok, I stand corrected, Nikolai. I see your point. I guess it's just... wrong... I dunno. Maybe it's just me. By the way - a 16 y.o. GUY pretending to be older and having fun isn't wrong, in my opinion LOL Maybe I'm just a male chauvinist.

[Shey]

"A 16 year y.o. GUY pretending to be older and having fun isn't wrong."

Male or Female is irrelevant. Maybe this quote from the TOS can help.

"IF YOU ARE NOT AT LEAST 18 YEARS OF AGE AND THE AGE OF MAJORITY IN YOUR JURISDICTION OF RESIDENCE, YOU ARE NOT PERMITTED TO USE OUR SERVICES AND YOU MUST CEASE ANY ATTEMPT TO ACCESS OR USE OUR SERVICES IMMEDIATELY."

[Thekink]

(01-02-2016, 02:18 PM)busyman1 Wrote: It's not a matter of being offended, Shey.  It's, like the name of this thread says, about limits of acceptability.  There is no situation I can possibly imagine that would make even roleplay like that acceptable, that's all.  These limits are not imposed by the internet - they are in my mind.

I dont have many limits, but underage is one! its not sexy (apsolotely the oposite) and Wrong to boot, I dont know if reporting is the right answer but a mail stating how it offends you would be absolutely correct. Some people push boundries without knowing the upset they cause, and its our job as The adults of our world (even if its just this game) to teach morality! Some people playing here play like children even if they are of age and although its a chore we need to teach them how to behave, because even if they are banned they will start again with another Email address and do the same thing again!!!!

[busyman1]

(01-03-2016, 01:01 AM)Shey Wrote: "A 16 year y.o. GUY pretending to be older and having fun isn't wrong."

Male or Female is irrelevant. Maybe this quote from the TOS can help.

"IF YOU ARE NOT AT LEAST 18 YEARS OF AGE AND THE AGE OF MAJORITY IN YOUR JURISDICTION OF RESIDENCE, YOU ARE NOT PERMITTED TO USE OUR SERVICES AND YOU MUST CEASE ANY ATTEMPT TO ACCESS OR USE OUR SERVICES IMMEDIATELY."

Shey - when you quote someone - quote the whole statement.  That missing "in my opinion" that you decided to cut off the end of the sentence makes a whole lot of difference in the meaning I was trying to convey... In my opinion..  :-D

[Emmie]

I think this video is for you if you are underage, or roleplay with someone underage.



Just to show how wrong it is, and no one should defend minors getting on here. Male or female shouldn't matter. Also busyman1, wether or not she had added the opinion part to the quote wouldn't have mattered, since it's not a matter of opinion, but a matter of right and wrong. It's against the law. So it's wrong. And if you know someone is underage, report them, it's in everyones best interest. They can come back here when they are 18+.

[Boo-cake]

Well, first of all, I want to say that I also find wrong to play this kind of games with someone that's underage because of the fact that the human brain is still on development until the earlies 20s of age, more or less, so it's technically like playing with someone that doesn't have his mental faculties ready to say what's right or what's wrong, kinda like abusing of a drunk person or even worse because that person at least knew that he was geting drunk.

That being said, I'm not against people that roleplays AS an underage AS LONG AS HE MAKES CLEAR THAT THEY ARE JUST DOING IT FOR FUN AND THAT THEY ARE BOTH RESPONSIBLE ADULTS KNOWING WHAT'S GOING ON. Why? Because society is so pushy on sex and porn that it makes some people look for those tabboes just because they're prohibited. Think about people that's into BDSM and things like that, they have a really unique vision of sexyness compared to us, but it's accepted in a lot of circles, even if it includes things like chocking and hiting. Hell, there's even people that roleplays rape scenes and adultery, why isn't that ilegal too?

Also, I want to point out to a thing that is starting to come out of the social tabooes side: the recreational drug of marihuana. Contrary to what many people would believe, the legaization of marihuana on some places like Colorado made the illegal business of other more potent drugs to fall some percentage. Now, what if just for giving people the oportunity to roleplay this kind of ilegal stuff (in a controlled environment and always with no real minor involved) you could actually drop the number of real pedophilia cases? Think about it, there might be a conection.

Lately, I would like to ask people to not trust morality on the laws or the state. Two hundred years ago, slavery was legal, a hundred year ago, us women couldn't vote, fifty years ago color people had to give their seat to white pople on the bus. The status quo is not always the best morality to go.

[Emmie]

I might've come off a bit strong. I am fully aware that the law isn't always right, there are many good examples. But in this case, I don't think there's room for opinion, and the "age of sexual consent law" can't be compared to slavery. The rules say 18+, and I don't want anyone to get in trouble over it.

[Shey]

You have my apologies for not Quoting the whole statement Busyman, but I did leave the opinion part out because it's irrelevant. You are entitled to have an opinion of course, but law is law friend and there's no room around it. I think Emmie is on the same page as me and has worded my reply better than I could have so thanks for that

[busyman1]

Apologies accepted, my lady Shey. Law's law, be that as it may - I simply don't like to be quoted out of context. And I was not defending the practice (quite the contrary, in fact) - I was expressing my opinion on a particular situation. I don't expect everyone to agree with me.

[Python]

This has gone way off the original topic haha Yea underage players are bad but since the site doesnt immedieatly require a credit card (which i like) then anyone can just lie.

As for limits in Rp, i've seen some weird hentai so imagination is crazy with monsters, slaves, bdsm, breaking ect. It all depends on my mood and how willing my partner is. Insest is not prefered but everything here is just a game so i can be a different person than I am irl. I haven't gotten many crazy partners but I'll try a new Rp at least once