(02-08-2019, 09:22 PM)JCF Wrote: I don't look for it, but sweat and even grime isn't a deal-breaker in terms of story setting, and often a given when I'm playing an orc. When that dirtiness gets to just raw filth, on the other hand, I need a lot more convincing even in a fantasy setting to go with it.

Like helping a blacksmith relax who's on a break? I can work with that. Getting down and dirty in a mud puddle? Enh... I dunno.

(02-12-2019, 06:52 PM)Overfiend Wrote: Girl on top is a great topic. If done well, it is mastery in seduction.  If done poorly, I'll be flipping you over to show our how to do it right...
I like the roll, the slow long deep stroke, I like the fast pump, the rocking horse, and the deep grind. 
 
I don't like being crushed by your body weight.  It's terrible when my balls are hurting from being crushed & the air in my stomach is being knocked out of me. Please have some body control. 

I don't like when the tempo from the start is a race to see how fast you can make me cum. That's just a formula for an accidental creampie & pregnancy.  Please be in tune with me, and set a pace that will make it last.

I don't like a broken rhythm. your moves should be smooth and easy. it's shouldn't feel like you're performing an exorcism on me. Please your rhythm should flow like Kenny G music, not like. catastrophe.

I don't like you don't know your own pussy and angles of penetration. Please if you grab it you should know where to put it.  And the angles of penetration has to be comfortable for both of us. I don't want to spend alot of time asking you to adjust your position like we're retarded with Legos.

You would be surprised how many girls struggle with these. I've even met many strippers that struggle with it, and I have to turn down their lap dance even though they. look attractive. I get it, it takes practice. But at least have some common sense.  And in the worst case scenario, let the guy take control until you get to know how he likes it. Sometimes when I sense she is struggling with being on top then I take the lead from the bottom and stroke upwards from the bottom so she can relax and we can enjoy.

(02-13-2019, 01:27 PM)Overfiend Wrote: Sorry it came across too strong.  Maybe you're better at it than most.  I have only met a few that were exceptional at it (even strippers).  Which is true, I'm usually in charge in bed....I think what you're hearing is my frustration because I would like a change and let her take charge. but I guess 1 too many bad experiences has refined my tastes with that.

Also by the way some of my best stripper lap dances didn't end in cum.  In fact I love it when she builds it up to the edge of almost cumming then slow it down to start again. afterwards, I find myself thinking about her until my next visit cause it was fun.   plus cumming during a lap dan can be messy and cut the dance short.  I want it all, greedy for seduction so I prefer to hold out so I can enjoy everything she has to give.  and I've found that when she can make it last and endure the ride she usually gets more money out of me. ...maybe I'm too much a of a fiend... making her work extra long & hard for my cum