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RE: Handling Unwanted Invites - DarkXtecy - 03-16-2016 (03-15-2016, 11:18 PM)misslanni Wrote:(03-15-2016, 10:13 PM)DarkXtecy Wrote: (just my one cent here) HI ok understand how this might look as my post came directly after yours....but i promise you it was not at all directed at you...i was just reviewing again through some post, and, it was just a thought that occurred as i was reading it, however now that you have pointed out some facts i feel i might need to say that there are some things i agree with you and some i dont...pleas understand that this is just my way of view and not trying to change your perspective "The way I see it, it's not much different than real life interactions"...i see virtual live and real life have a very brood and completely different lifestyle....what i am not in real life...i can express it in virtual life...which means, the way i see real life concepts can be viewed vary differently in virtual life....if in real world i got in a fight then it would really have an impact in my lifestyle (such as anger, hate, revenge..maybe) but if in virtual fight that does absolutely nothing to me, more over it makes the other person look more foolish...this is just an example btw. but yes if in real life like you said if some one tried to just consider being friends only coz we said "hi"...that would be creepy.....but in virtual life i don't see that as being a creep...why...simply because it does not affect me in my real life.....obviously tho there is a limit to this too, as long as it does not become a life threatening situation. "Being online in MNF club does not mean you logged in to sex the first avatar that invites you to their room or that sends a friend request"....i understand what you meant here...very true...however from my point of view, i see it as this...this is a game "based on kink activities" now to me it will be natural if some one came up to me and asked "hey lets fuck"...why, well because this is one "environment" where it was meant for it...the aim and purpose behind this game...maybe not the "main" aim but its there...i mean i can understand if this was some social site similar to Facebook or twitter etc...and i get a PM saying "hey i think we should bang like crazy animals" (being a guy maybe i can accept it lol) but this still would be very unnatural feeling for me coz its not the "environment" built for that as a purpose...so naturally the first reaction majority people will have is to see if they can get laid or not (obviously this will differ according to each individuals) Now lets just imagine for instance this was one and only and no other like "Japanese" based game (now of course if its like that, those that don't know Japanese will never play this game but just for benefit of dought say we do play it) thus everyone will be speaking in Japanese...and us that know little to nothing in Japanese keep wondering around in game looking like lost souls...but being a "one and only kink" game we carry on playing, and if we tried to get laid with some one...how would we go about doing it?...we may know few words that could form as "hey wanna have sex?" (just an example) or perhaps just cold invites....so yeah language does make an impact for some. So all in all I am trying to say is that not every one that comes at us is a creep just because his/her first approach was not according to my liking (once again just my view) but i will monitor, if, are they trying to socialize or just trying to be assholess and accordingly i will interect...its true..very true that some are there just to troll but i feel other dont know how to go about using this game, and to those i will try and guide them, if they accept all well and good...if not then just igoner them. anyway i had explain earlier as to why i had posted the "previous" post it was just to clear my misunderstanding...it was not aimed at anyone....and i had apologized if it did come off as such. As for this post...this is just my views of how i see things as compared to as how you see it as...its not to change your views. RE: Handling Unwanted Invites - DarkXtecy - 03-17-2016 @misslanni: ok agreed as well i hope we can still be friends tho even with difference in opinion...once again i do apologize truly if it caused you any discomfort. I hope you also have as much fun in the ways you see fit RE: Handling Unwanted Invites - Vik - 03-17-2016 Since I added some sunglasses and a cap to my outfit, I sometimes get ''random'' pm's by other guys. Mostly they're pretty normal (if I'm gay/bi or they think I'm handsome or so), but once I got this He: Suck my balls! Me, thinking I've pissed him off on the public chat or so: Why? He: Because you're sexy! Euh, right. RE: Handling Unwanted Invites - Sharp - 03-18-2016 So, when I briefly had a female avatar in the game, I tended to ignore the usual "hi" and "how are you" PM's, and gave courteous rejections to those who were at least a little more eloquent or at least appeared to be putting in some effort. Of course, sometimes I decided to either have a bit of fun, or make a point of how badly some pickup attempts are perceived. These are a little old, I must have saved them at the time and never got around to posting on here. First up, Curious About BBC.. [attachment=218] [attachment=219] Second, just plain Ewwwww.. [attachment=220] And finally, another from playing as my main avatar.. [attachment=221] RE: Handling Unwanted Invites - Altaria - 03-18-2016 ahahah. That second one, I had a few like those and two more like the rapist style :S I got scared at the most brutal ones. And than they get offended or keep asking even when I say "no", "not in the mood" or simply "that's disgusting". Some really nasty I block and report. I don't understand why they can't take a No, it's like talking to a 4 year old kid RE: Handling Unwanted Invites - Purest_Elf - 03-18-2016 I swear all these orcs roaming around. Some of them are too much to handle! He's a little rude, but he did know beforehand I like things rough. [attachment=222] [attachment=223] RE: Handling Unwanted Invites - Vrook - 03-18-2016 Who knows, maybe he really was an orc. I mean, by the way he talks, he fits in place! RE: Handling Unwanted Invites - DarkXtecy - 03-18-2016 agreed with vrook...but then again it could be that he was going through some fit of rejection or something RE: Handling Unwanted Invites - Bor - 03-19-2016 thats... not how you orc... that's not how you human either... what is that creature? ;o RE: Handling Unwanted Invites - Emmie - 03-19-2016 How does one orc? Would that not depend on which kind of orc you are? Tolkien orcs for example, do they even care for sex? |